Saturday, February 3, 2018

The final chapter has been reached.


The final chapter has been reached. Our beloved Mark gained his angel wings today peacefully in his sleep 2/2/2018 9:20 am may he fly with the angels and be part of the heavenly band.  He is at peace and once again whole. In lieu of flowers here is a place to celebrate his memory.


And death shall have no dominion.
Dead man naked they shall be one
With the man in the wind and the west moon;
When their bones are picked clean and the clean bones gone,
They shall have stars at elbow and foot;
Though they go mad they shall be sane,
Though they sink through the sea they shall rise again;
Though lovers be lost love shall not;
And death shall have no dominion.

And death shall have no dominion.
Under the windings of the sea
They lying long shall not die windily;
Twisting on racks when sinews give way,
Strapped to a wheel, yet they shall not break;
Faith in their hands shall snap in two,
And the unicorn evils run them through;
Split all ends up they shan't crack;
And death shall have no dominion.

And death shall have no dominion.
No more may gulls cry at their ears
Or waves break loud on the seashores;
Where blew a flower may a flower no more
Lift its head to the blows of the rain;
Though they be mad and dead as nails,
Heads of the characters hammer through daisies;
Break in the sun till the sun breaks down,
And death shall have no dominion.
Dylan Thomas

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

It's Moving Time

Well after starting this journey in 2009 we are now to the point where we made a short sale but must move sooner than we thought. If you can help us move in any way we will gladly give you any stuff and be forever grateful. Mark is now totally bedridden with balance issues so please keep us in your prayers. Hugs us


https://www.gofundme.com/its-moving-time



Saturday, July 16, 2016

We Must Move On! :(

UPDATE! We must Move On ! ~ Legal fail :(
Having exhausted all legal options, we must move on and try to sell the house. If anyone wants any computer stuff or automotive tools and millions of knick-knacks or yard tools or kitchen stuff [you get the picture] we would love to help you out with either a donation of goods or a small charge for items we simply do not need :( Tough times but we all have them!.






Saturday, June 18, 2016

The Prayer of Saint Francis

The Prayer of Saint Francis

Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.

O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console,
To be understood as to understand,
To be loved as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
It is in dying to self that we are born to eternal life.


Sunday, April 10, 2016

A Stand for Hope - RFL Photography Exhibit

Argus By Caitlin Tobias



Why I Relay ~ Argus Collingwood

Farrokh Vavoom [ real life name Mark Shilts] has been my husband, friend and life partner for many years. We married in the 1980's and have a wonderful son who is now 30. Mark has worked for many places like Lawrence Livermore Lab, Dolby Lab and did web design for Journey, the band, who we brought into Second Life for an experiment in 2007-2008. Then disaster struck in the form of a huge tumor located in the center of his brain.  It left him unable to function and was in danger of killing him. He had an operation in October of 2009 that left him disabled. I am his Caregiver and Relay in Support of him and all others who are affected by disease and devoted to research that will prevent and cure any and all forms of cancer. Caregivers are an important part of Relaying and we appreciate all the help we get and give from being involved. Go Relay!


Caity did a wonderful job on my photos Bless Your Heart




Friday, April 8, 2016

Short Update # 15

A short update: We are still trying to workout a settlement with our Mortgage company but they are dragging their heels and it is taking a toll on my sanity and spirits. I am trying to remain calm and carry on but between caregiving and keeping up a positive face for my dear husband, I am feeling like a hamster in a cage just spinning my wheel. Positive energy needed and prayer accepted. Love you all .. oh and a series of winning lotto numbers would help too ;)






Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Update # 14 Farr plays at Noon


Time for an update ~ The legal paperchase continues and i must admit I am often nervous about the whole thing but time and prayers will tell what will happen. In the meantime, Mark [Farr] will be playing his yearly Christmas set at Noon PST today in Second Life... Two Moon Paradise Winter Wonderland .. once again thanks for all the prayers and support we love you all ♥



Wednesday December 2nd

Noon-1 pm slt Christmas with Farr ~ Winter Wonderland

Come and catch the Christmas spirit with this fabulous drummer who has dedicated his life to music.

Getting cold feet grab some hot chocolate and enjoy the fireplace in our Gingerbread house. Lots of free gifts for everyone. Join us for an incredible time in our Winter Wonderland, our Fifth year of celebrating the season together and hug a deer.



https://secondlife.com/destination/winter-wonderland-at-two-moon-paradise


Monday, October 19, 2015

Update October 19th

Frannie Flowers a sweet memory

Update October 19th ~ Legal tells me all my scanning is over for right now and that means my paperchase is over for the present! YAY! We want to thank everyone again for all your kindness and support on so many levels. We have our ups and downs but are remaining positive that we will prevail and weather this storm ♥






Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Update # 12 A Gathering of friends



Today 10/10/2015 Shiran Sabra, Raven Cinquetti, Secret Rage, Jolie Serendipity, Russell Eponym, AM Quar, Max Kleene and The Funky Feats Kellie all conspired to have a benefit for the Save Our Home Fund and it raised $162, 000 L or $642 USD. What a wonderful crew and here are their names: Allenfire99 Blackburn AM Quar Kellie McMinnar Atlan Heron Awgidawda Gazov Bells Semyorka BurningInfinity Resident Cole Fairlock Dale DeVinna DAWillie Minotaur Dawn Greymyst FireStorm777 Resident Friday Selona janette Inglewood Jasmyn Sugarplum Jenna Dirval Jolie Serendipity Jules Usbourne Julian Wolfenhaut Kellie McMinnar Kiyomae Resident krista1k Resident LeviKuntz Resident Lexie Mullery LouLouBreeze Resident Mackenzie Penucca Magenta Levenque MarleyJo Resident MichaelZ Market Morton Wheels Neeria Resident Okeanos Theseus OneCoolBud Karu Patti Omizu Petronella Piers RainaTemple Resident Raven Cinquetti Richy Nervous Rosie Paz Russell Eponym Rusty Seisenbacher shannon Hak Shanti Rasa Shay Sunnyside Shiran Sabra Starlight Despres Stefan Schism steven Onskan Valhala Vollmar still Braveheart Stormy Dench TerryDavidd Resident tycho Valhala Vollmar Wicked7 Resident Wynn Wrentling ZMAN Troncon DanielRockport Resident KYUUKETSUKI Shojo

Bless Your Golden Hearts






Highlights from the Second Life Destination Guide 10/09/2015

Highlights from the Second Life Destination Guide 10/09/2015




Halloween Haunt at Two Moon Paradise is on this list 

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Update #11 :)




Update: We are holding steady on all fronts. Mark is playing his music in Second Life and other than balance issues is in good shape. He is really enjoying audio books now as reading is tough due to his vision issues. I am always busy scanning various documents for the legal stuff, working at care giving and keeping busy in Second Life. We are so thankful for all the good vibes, prayers and good thoughts coming our way. Here is a blast from the past I scanned just because it was there. Our Journey friends will appreciate this 




Friday, October 2, 2015

Update # 10




Thanks so much everyone for all the support, prayers, good thoughts and concerns. We are trudging forward with the legal team. Lots of paperwork .. I do not know how folks can do anything without a scanner and an efax account. God Bless the Internet. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all in need.. especially those in Oregon ♥

Saturday, September 26, 2015

MRI Results Update

UPDATE MRI: Well, we went to the doctor for the MRI results and good news no new growth. This means that since the radiation about 30 months ago, the treatment is holding. Our Doctor Vincent Massullo and his staff are wonderful people. Warm, helping, friendly and compassionate . The Doc said something very Yogi Berra today to us, he looked at Mark and said, "You know, you are in really good shape considering the shape you are in." We all laughed and agreed . Next appointment, six months. Thanks for all the support and good thoughts and prayers ♥ Adding a photo of "Marco Ono" in his new travel transport fold up chair that actually fits in the VW bug :) May the Higher Powers Bless and sustain you all ♥



Thursday, September 17, 2015

Help Mark & Cj Save Our Home

Help Mark & Cj Save Our Home





We sent out this hardship letter to our bank in hopes that we could qualify for a loan re-work but were recently turned down.. what we hope to do it get current on our loan so that we can keep our home.


"In October of 2009, Mark was discovered to have a Pineal Meningiomas tumor that required immediate surgery. He underwent a 12 hour operation, they installed a shunt to wick away excess brain fluids that would have caused his demise. They did not remove all of the tumor and further treatment is needed  He is on Disability and as a result of the operation has impaired brain function, severe balance and vision issues and is unable to work. We fell behind on many of our bills soon after that. With our income not being nearly enough, we have gotten further and further behind.  We are determined to pay what we owe, but we have exhausted all means—using all retirement funds and borrowing from friends and family. We have nowhere else to turn, so we feel it is time to ask if there is any way you could help.

Mark is currently on Medicare so that we may continue his tumor treatment is on Disability and cannot work and I am retired and his full time caregiver   

We are eager to hear from you. Hopefully, we can resolve this issue. This is our only residence and has been in our family since 1961.

Sincerely and Respectfully,

Mark A Shilts and Carolyn Shilts  Date 8/15/2015"

They turned us down.. if any of you can find it in your hearts to help us, that would be so appreciated and help us begin to Start Believin Again.

Sunday, September 6, 2015